
I am talking about this post of course. It could be taken the other way too. We are not “old” but we are not kids anymore either, so I guess you can take it however you like it!
However, the point is that we are in our second month of marriage (celebrating 2 months on Thursday) and I am just now getting around to posting about the wedding. It took us a while to get our photos, due to technical difficulties and then there was so much catching up to do when we returned. So sorry it’s late, but here it is! I already gave you a look at the honeymoon, but now it is time to write the story of our wedding day and all the wonderful vendors that helped us to make the day even more special. Plus, I know you are all dying to hear about the food and the cake.
I know everyone says this, but we had the best wedding ever. It was small and nearly everyone that we are close to was there to spend the weekend with us - Roberto’s mom, all of my parents, Roberto’s daughters, Gwen and Rachel, my best friend Jen and her family, and several other relatives and close friends. Just having all the people we love surrounding us, made it an amazing day.

We were married early in the day, so we opted to have a Brunch for our reception. I have always loved brunch - there is something just so classic about it, not to mention very budget friendly.

Since we had a small guest list, we were able to procure a beautiful Spanish style restaurant to host it. Saint Augustine, FL is well known for its Spanish history. Although it was held by the British as well, before the Americans, it is the Spanish who will forever be associated with the place. You can see this influence reflected in the architecture all over town, as well as the street names. It is such a beautiful place. When you are coming over the bridge from the beach into downtown, if it weren’t for the American flag, you would think you were in Spain.

For this reason, we really wanted to show our out of town guests what Saint Augustine is all about - get into the spirit of things, since many of them were going to spend some time in the city either before or after the wedding and many of them had never been here before. Therefore, we opted to have our brunch at La Cocina Restaurant located inside the Spanish inspired Castillo Real Hotel . Early on in the wedding planning game, we went to La Cocina to have lunch. We were very impressed by the artistic plating they did. Although the restaurant is very wallet friendly, dining there, you feel like you are in a swanky place. The staff is very professional, helpful and makes really delicious food.
This was our HUGE menu on the big day:
Fresh Fruit Display with Kahlua Yogurt Sauce
Green Salad with Corn, White Beans, Tomato, Avocado, Roasted Peppers, in a Cilantro-Cumin Dressing
Tomato and Fresh Mozzarella Salad
Eggs Benedict
Penne Pasta with Shrimp
Alaskan Salmon with Peppercorn Cream Sauce
Sautéed Chicken Breasts with a Mushroom Demi-Glaze
Rosemary Roasted Potatoes
Sautéed Garlic Veggies
Garlic Bread
Coffee and Tea
*We also had Riesling, Chardonnay and Pinot Grigio. Our “champagne toast” was done with Moscato D’Asti. *
Everything was delicious. I especially loved the Tomato and Mozzarella salad which had a fantastic balsamic dressing on the side, and the Eggs Benedict, which were cooked to perfection. Also big hits were the salmon, the potatoes and the fabulous garlic bread! I had a bite of everything and I was not disappointed. If you ever are planning a wedding in Saint Augustine, look into having your reception at La Cocina, and be sure to ask for Norberto. Or if you are just coming here for a visit, be sure to check it out for lunch or dinner - it is rated one of the best restaurants in town.
Moving on to the cake. We had several cake tastings before we found the right bakers. As soon as we walked into
DeFores Cake Design and met with Kerry and Sandi, we knew. They had a cute table set up, with a tablecloth, flowers and two dishes with 3 different types of cake on it, accompanied by bottles of water. I had mentioned in one of my inquiry emails that we were looking for a Zuppe Inglese, an Italian layer cake with custard, chocolate and fruit. It is like a glorified trifle and a lot of people refer to it as Italian Wedding Cake (not to be confused with Cassata, a Sicilian cake that is also sometimes referred to as Wedding Cake). Most of the bakers we talked to, especially “wedding cake bakers” said it was impossible. But the amazing thing was, when we stepped into DeFores and asked what kinds of cakes we were sampling, they told us one was Zuppe Inglese. Kerry had baked it just for us, so we could try it. Not only that, but she had never made one before! Now that was amazing. Once we took a bite we were sold. The cake was tender, soft and delicious and the layers were creamy and full of flavor. One of the other samples was a chocolate cake with dark fudge filling. That was heavenly too, so we decided to make each of our tiers a different flavor.

The biggest layer was the Zuppe Inglese. Second layer was the chocolate cake with dark fudge filling and third layer - traditional for the 1 year anniversary, was rum cake with a custard filling! A nod to our Jamaican honeymoon. The cake had a simple, yet beautiful design - exactly what we wanted. No icky fondant here. Buttercream icing with a wave motif, and Sandi (the decorator in the pair) even painted seashells for the top. It was an exceptional cake. I am soo ecstatic that there is still some in the freezer awaiting us! I highly recommend DeFores Cake Design.
All of these gorgeous photos were taken by my friend and photographer, Keri Duesing. I met Keri when we were still living in Ocala. She is an animal and sports photographer who had assisted with many weddings. However, she is expanding her portfolio to include weddings, so we decided it was a perfect idea for her to do ours. She did a wonderful job and I can’t thank her enough. Her website is here (where you can see more of our wedding pictures too!) ,or you can contact her through her email address: krduesing@netscape.net
































59 Responses to “Our Wedding Day Story: Better Late Than Never…” »
You look beautiful in your dress.
Hi hi and love the last picture.
Congragulations to both of you
Beautiful, beautiful! What a great day.
Love the dress, cake, pictures, food…I LOVE WEDDINGS!!!
Absolutely beautiful!
Massive congratulations. Wishing you all the very best for a long and happy future. Great cake
Lovely, lovely pictures. You look stunning.
What a beautiful wedding. Your dress is lovely and the food sounds delicious. I love the first photo of you and your husband.
Ooohh! How lovely! I love that pic of both of you on the beach drawing a love heart….everything on the day sounded perfect. Now, can we have the recipe for that “kahlua yogurt sauce”…mmmm.
Looks like a truly beautiful wedding…congrats again, here’s to many many more happy memories
What a beautiful setting for a wedding. And an interesting menu, which of course is necessary for a foodie’s special day.
How beautiful! oh how I miss it there!
Looks wonderful and now we have to check out that restaurant!
Congrats again!
oh and that cake!!!!!!
We had our made by grandma and his sister (grandma makes all the wedding cakes in the family and they are sahweet heaven tasting, but yours looked almost like ours (click link)
Kathy (sis in law) even made the ’sea glass’ candy all over it and every other thing on it that was edible (every thing except the starfish)
You look like an angel. Congratulations on your nuptuals. May your heart, mind and belly always be full.
I believe you when you say “best wedding ever” because it was small, therefore memorable. The Big Fat Greek Wedding is not a memorable experience at all.
You’re fortunate to be able to do such a wedding. Got any cake left? lol
what a beautiful day!
Congratulations again! Love seeing you two on the beach, you are a beautiful bride!
Your wedding cake is gorgeous! I bet the Zuppa Inglese was heavenly!
I’m going to have to try that restaurant out next time we are up there, I keep hearing good things about it, your menu sounded delicious! Happy 2 month anniversary =)!
Congratulations, Jenn & Roberto! You look amazing and so happy! Of course the food sounds fantastic. Especially the cake…I don’t suppose you saved some in your freezer for me, too?
Congratulations!!! You look fantastic in your attire. I love your last piture
Oh, so good to see your wedding photos! Congrats to you both!! I LOVE St. Augustine! I am SO happy for you!!
Everything looks so lovely and elegant, including you! Your photographer did a wonderful job. She really captured the beauty of the day.
Thanks for the tip about La Cocina. We’re thinking about taking my in-laws to St. Augustine for their 50th. It sounds like the perfect place to celebrate.
OOOoooooohhh!!!! How beautiful, Jenn :D. Everything seems perfect: The Spanish Castle, the food, the cake, the pictures… What a lovely day♥. You look so bright and happy

Thanks a lot for sharing such special and intimate moments with us
Muchos Besos y Felicidades♥♥♥
What a lovely post and how beautiful everything looks - especially you! The food sounds great and the cake looks and sounds fabulous! I am intrigued by the Kahlua Yoghurt sauce. And I just have to say something about Dad! What a handsome man! He reminds me of the guy that played the ‘Consigliori’ in Godfather !!!!
Hi Jenn, it will be 12 years since we got married on 14 December 1996 and I still remember the details as clearly as if it was yesterday. I wish for you and Roberto many years of happy memories. Thanks so much for the lovely write-up on my site on Friday’s finest.I got so many new visitors from that.
Oh, those are beautiful pictures. I would have the first one in a big frame hanging somewhere! Absolutely gorgeous!
Congratulations!
You looked so beautiful Jenn in that dress
Wish you both happily ever after, amen!
You two are glowing!!! And you look like a princess, sweetie! So beautiful!
Love the dress, the cake… The hair!
What a memorable day yiu all had. I still think that small intimate weddings are the way to go:D
Thanks everyone for all your lovely comments! It really was a day to remember. It is fun to share it with all of you!
Thanks Happy Cook! I love that picture too - it always makes me smile!
Thanks Toontzie!
Me too, Judy! I just love weddings so much! This one was even better because it was ALL MINE! LOL!
Thanks so very much, Alex! That cake rocked!
Aw, thanks Wendy!
Thanks Tanya! Yeah, that is definately one of our favorites too.
I know Peter! I would love to have several of the recipes! The food was amazing, as was the entire day!
Thanks so much, Kat!
Thanks Aggie! Can’t believe it is 2 months already! Time sure flies when you are blisfully happy! Yes, the Zuppe Inglese was incredible! And you HAVE to try La Cocina! It was great!
Elly, if you can get here, I promise there is a piece of cake in the fridge with your name on it! You are welcome anytime!
Thanks so much Vani!
Thank you so much Prudy! You are so sweet!
I know Susan! I really love the photos! She did a great job! I think La Cocina would be a fabulous place to host an anniversary dinner! It is intimate, yet very sophisticated.
Thanks so much sweet Nuria! It was a wonderful day and I am so glad to see that spirit shines through the photos!
Thank you so much Dharm! I appreciate it! Yeah, the food, cake and everything was just amazing! And you should have seen my dad about 10 years ago, when he got his “Al Pacino” hair cut - I swear it was exactly the same as in the third movie! The funny thing is, he is Scottish! My mom is the Italian! LOL!
That is just lovely Nina, that you can remember your wedding day so clearly after all these years. I hope I will be as lucky because I want to remember it forever! Thanks, sweetie! and I am soooo glad to hear that you got some nice hits from FFF.
Thanks Pam! I know! I really need to get several frames!
Thank you Sefa! I appreciate it so much!
Aw, thanks Patricia! You are so sweet!
OOOPS! Somehow I missed a bunch of comments in there! So sorry!
Yes, Lisa, you are so right about the food - that was certainly one of the most important components of the day!
Oh Christey! Your cake is so amazing! I also snuck a peek at some of your other photos! You two make such a great couple!
You were a beautiful bride. Love your dress! I think that is awesome that Grandma made the cake for you - how special!
Natashya! Thank you for those wonderful wishes - we will truly have a fabulous life with all of those!
Like I said to Elly, Peter, if you can get down here, you deserve a slice of cake!
Yeah, big weddings can be fun, but I think you miss a lot.
Thanks Kat!
And Valli, my friend, thank you so much!
(Hope I got everyone this time!)
How beautiful story! I loved the pictures, the menu, the cake and everything you posted:) You look beautiful and happy. Love the last pic:)
Congratulations to both of you. You look beautiful in your dress.Love the last picture.;-)Great Cake.
Congratulations! Looks like it was a beautiful day- I hope you remember it! Mine went by so fast I can’t recall any of the details
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful details with us, as well as fabulous photos!
It sounds like the perfect day. Perfect cake, too!
Congratulations…….Wow you look gorgeous and such a beautiful wedding.
Everything about it looks perfect. I had the perfect wedding too (well, it was quite hot and the caterer wasn’t the greatest, but it was awesome.) It looks like it was an amazing setting!
Everything looks so lovely!
Jenn, I love the first picture,what a beautiful day, thanks for sharing!1
Aw, Jen! You look just stunning! I love that pic of you guys drawing in the sand, but the butt bump is cute, too!
What a spectacular menu, too. Congratulations, sweetie! 
Congratulations again Jen and Roberto!
Everything looks fantastic. Great pix.
Thanks for the great description. It’s like we’ve been there virtually. Everything was very romantic and perfect. Thanks for sharing this with us. The pictures are lovely.
Thanks so much Farida!
It was an incredible day made all the better by all the delicious food and the cooperation of Mother Nature, not to mention all the fabulous people who where there to support us!
Thanks Sireesha! That last picture sure sums it up!
Thanks Kate. I actually remember quite a lot of it. It was a gorgeous day, and I really made it my intention to remember it. I even slowed myself down on a regular basis during the day so I could be fully present and enjoy it! I knew if I didn’t it would just FLY!
Thanks so much Jen! We really couldn’t have asked for more!
Aw, thanks so much Neema!
Thanks Lori! I am so glad you loved your wedding too!
Yes, Anastasia Island is just a gorgeous place!
Thanks Nikki!
Thanks Marie! It was fun writing this post - like I got to live it all over again!
Aw, thanks so much Nikki! I think the heart drawing pic is one of our faves, and of course the butt bump. Oh yeah, the food was incredible!
Thanks so much Donald!
Oh, Ivy, it was super romantic and fabulous!
Those pictures were great, You were stunning Jen, just stunning!
Beautiful Jen. What a perfect and picturesque day. I love the simple wedding cake with the shells. And the brunch idea is brilliant.
I love that picture of you and your husband on the beach… It’s absolutely beautiful. Thanks for sharing your special day. I love your blog!
Jenn, Thanks for the belated invitation to enjoy this wonderful day with you. Everyone looks both happy and relaxed- the true sign of a blessed match and a great wedding! I love the photo of you and Roberto drawing in the sand. Congratulations to you both!
Thanks so much for sharing your perfect wedding day
It looks like it was fantastic. Congrats on kicking off your new life together!
Oh my god, your wedding was gorgeous! Especially you, darling!!
We aren’t able to be legally married at our wedding due to insurance issues, so we are considering “eloping” after the wedding to get legally married on a beach somewhere, probably around Christmas or spring of ‘09. We will have to look into St Augustine, since your wedding was so wonderful there!
You cake is beautiful, too! That is really exciting about the zuppe inglese cake! We wanted a tres leches layer as a nod to the culture I grew up in, but our bakers said it was impossible, too. Too “mushy” and wet. Bah.
lovely pics and that cake looks amazing - I would love a taste as your description makes it sound delicious - am sure it was a great day and that you have many memories
Congratulations Jen. What a beautiful wedding! I had a morning wedding and served brunch as well… you’re right, it’s more wallet friendly! LOL….
What a gorgeous wedding! I love it, and you looked stunning on your day. If I was going to do it all over again, it would be exactly like yours.
Jenn, your wedding was just beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing this with us. I especially love the photographs of you and Roberto on the beach. You looked devine, and as I mentioned before, frangipanis are my favourite flowers - they looked wonderful in your hair. And the cake - WOW - it speaks for itself.
that butt-bumping picture is way cute! you can tell a lot about a couple from their butt-bump. i can tell from yours that you and roberto will be together forever
Happy 2 month anniversary!
I’m so glad you did a post about your wedding. I was wondering if you were going to talk more about it. I love that you had a brunch…everything sounds really good.
I also love that you held your wedding on the beach. I’d want to do that, if I had a wedding
Now, if I could just sample each layer of that wedding cake, that would be amazing!
as you celebrate your 2 month anniversary, i’ll be celebrating my one year. what a great post - you can just see how much fun you had! congrats, again!
Oh, Jenn…wow! I thought you were already married for some reason. Your wedding looks like it was perfectly marvelous, delicious, happy and beautiful. You look stunning. The photography is amazing; she really captured the feeling of the day and the love between you two.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Looks beautiful Jenn - Love that photo of the etched heart on the sand! Here’s to many many years of happiness to come…
Ah Jenn you look so pretty! What a special day and many memories… Thank you for sharing with us. Cheers to you guys!
Beautiful photos; you two look marvelous and so happy! Congrats!
That is absolutely a top wedding day from your words and photos. That’s what we need: beautiful memories from living and sharing with those we care about!
You look beautiful Jenn! Hubby’s cute too.
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